Libra: Sign in Action

The Libra person’s vibe. What it is like to know the Libra person.

Interview of Libra-
 
Hello there, I'm Libra. I love relationships--you know why? I love harmony. I love when everybody is just getting along--its my favorite thing, being close to people and just being in tandem with them. Those bicycles build for two? That was a Libra thing. Two people on the bike at the same time so they can go together--how fantastic is that? Then you never lose that person! Cause you’re connected at the hip--twins! Wait, I like that concept. Or people getting married, I love the notion of marriage. You get married and stay married the rest of your life; that’s like, all Libras dreams!

I have been studying relationship and I study all kinds of them. People that work and people that don't work --oh my God, there is so many kinds of relationships. And I'm fascinated by it. And thats why Libra's are lawyers, and they often are divorce lawyers. Its so interesting, who gets along and who doesn't --have you ever noticed it too? You try to get along and it doesn't work, then you want it to--oh my god, I can go on and on.

You know what I also like? Colors! They can have relationships that you know for sure works! For example, you know, without a question that these two things work--no decision! My pants and the golden lines on my shirt match! No two cents, my pants and short are compatible. Not all relationships work, but these two colors do. No weighing, done, no decision.

Anyway, listen, I don't like hurting people. Because you know, harmony is all. Even if its bad, I like it.  I love happy groups--I just hate when someone goes off by themselves and whispers--I hate that. Or people in clicky things--oh, and big dictionaries;when I was a teen I just hated that. I just want everybody to get along. When everyone is together, no fussing, I love it. Co-dependency, its my favorite thing!

Listen, we are not build to be alone, we should always be in partnership -- at all times. Don't you think? If you’re alone too long, things start feeling a bit scary.

Its very hard for me to talk about myself. See, things are going to start getting really draggy if you don't start asking me some questions. Hey, why don't you tell me about you? I'm really interested in you. I like to know what you’re doing when no one is looking--I'm very nosy. I love to gossip. I find that interesting. Who is in relationship and who isn't? I can be on the phone all day long talking about other people. But wait, I have a hard time though, you know what I mean?

Well, on the other hand, I can talk about me all the time! No...No, no I can't. See, there is a good example of partnering; I was vain and that was clear, so I surrendered about it. Thats what a good relationship is! Thats really powerful! Thats Libra, they like relationships because they like to be clear and when the other person tells them what to do. And if we don't like it, we will always argue with you. We like to argue. Its just fun! Its that rata-ta-ta thing, a little tension. Rrr!

Its hard for me to make decisions, but when I finally do, I'm very good.

Oh, I'm really good at designing and art, I'm a really good artist. I work in teams, so I have a pal who helps me make my point of view very strong. Listen though, I'm strong, I'm very strong! On the other hand, I'm very sensitive. I'm strong and I'm sensitive. I'm partnering! Everything for me is partnering. This is so confusing. Yes, I'm strong--I'm strong when it comes to relationships, and I'm really good at colors.

I love to have beauty around me. Even if my bedroom is a mess, I love beauty! If I see this really pretty person, oh gosh. But looks don't matter, right? As long as they are brushed up. I'll marry a ugly person--no I won't -- yes, I will. Ugh, a Ugly partner is better than none....And a crappy relationship is better then none too.

I'm really not good at anything to tell you the truth. I'm sort'a good. Not that I'm not good, I am good...I know I'm good as a therapist. I bring everybody out of themselves. Go ahead, talk to me. What would you like to talk about? Anger? Now, now, thats funny. Um, anger happens when someone does something you don't want them to do--and then I try to pretend it doesn't bug me. Haha, I say, "Hoho it doesn't really bother me." And later I get really pissed off.

 I wanna be mean, and I wanna get mad, but I don't like disharmony --I hate disharmony. But I'm always with other people so I have to get along with them, right?
They ask me, what store to go to, this one or that one -- I don't care, where do you wanna go, where do you wanna go? I secretly get pissed off--but we all know you wanna do it your way--and then its too late, hahaha! So I'm pissed off, but I won't tell you. Shh, that was all a secret.

When I can get a relationship going, I can get spiritual. I really do wanna know how to harmonize with somebody...some of the time. The other half of the time I wish I was alone...
Is that funny? Like, half of the time, I want to be there for them and understand them, but the other half, I wish they go away already!

Cuz, you know, if your with someone for too long, they start to get to know you, really, and they want you to be you, but your busy being them, your trying to figure out them, and your waiting for them to show up, but you don't know how to show up because you are so busy trying to be them for the relationship to run smooth--its hard!

I find myself so accommodating and so pleasing, and easy to get along with and so blah blah blah, that I lose myself. But then, when I'm with myself too long, I go through the journey, but on that journey, I find the only way for me is through relationships so I'm like in a circle! By myself, with someone else, by myself, with someone else. But the best they say, now listen, here is some wisdom, is to be alone with someone else. Get it? Thats profound. Thats the truth of relationships, who can you be alone with?

See, its a little tricky being a Libra because they are so many points of views, so many angles that it gets a little confusing. But I'm very enduring. People say that I'm charming. And I really do want to get along; so, so far, I haven't annoyed anyone yet with the kinda, sort'a kind'a thing? No, it doesn't bug you? Oh great. You like me? A little or a lot? Thanks, just checking.


Ladies and gentlemen, Libra, the sign of Marriage and Balance.

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Click the links below to read other signs in action.


Aries: Sign in Action
Taurus: Sign in Action  
Gemini: Sign in Action
Libra: Sign in Action 


I am not taking full credit for this funny blog. The main rights go to Debra Silverman, the astrologer. She made funny youtube video’s about the signs in action-you may or may not have seen them already. I liked them so I took the time to write them down. Of course I made a lot of it myself so…I’ll take the credit for the hard work. Thanks for reading.

Taurus man and Libra woman scenario: Commitment problems.

A Taurus man and a Libra woman are interested in each other; this is a scenario and “how” they are probably viewing each other in the beginning of the dating process. Watch how Taurus is taking his time to make up his mind, while Libra so worried about the whole relationship that shes getting worried. 

Attraction between Taurus man and Libra woman


Libra woman’s point of view: (before dating)
"Just started seeing a Taurus man. So far, pretty good. He is a little too quiet for my liking, but anyway(!) he is still very handsome and I can't wait for our next date, if only he'd plan one. His shoulders and skin tone is so attractive to me. He has a deep, manly voice and strong personality, which give me goosebumps when we are having a good time! But sometimes, I can't tell if he likes me for real because one minute, he is nice, the next, he is gone. I'm actually pretty confused, and its starting to make me doubt his feelings, but I'm hoping he is ready to show his feeling soon and take it slow with me." 

Libra wants to take it slow, but that doesn't mean bore her, Taurus.


Taurus man’s point of view: (before dating)
"I'm trying to find out if I should date this Libra girl for real. She is very pleasant, and has such wonderfully feminine features. Her voice is rich and creamy, and she looks so delicate that I'm sure a lot of men are after her. She has been calling me on the phone a lot, I liked it, but to be honest, its a bit much. We aren't even dating, really. I mean, I would have no problem in asking her out on a date, its only she has much more friends than me. I won't feel good if she is always with other people (men) so its a decision I'm still thinking about."

Taurus likes what he sees, but he is not sure if he should go with it. So Libra, don't flirt with Taurus if you aren't ready for a long bull ride. That just sounded dirty...

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Part II


Libra woman’s point of view: (just started dating)
"This relationship is great. My Taurus is super affectionate and drowns me in gifts. I love how he protects me, and yes, he is quite the jealous man, though he tries to hide it. Moreover, we have started living together; I didn't want us to jump this way so fast, I wanted to date him but I wasn't sure if he was the "one", you know? As you know, I found him very attractive and I liked him, but he suddenly gotten a little pushy and needy, so I thought it fair to go with him. After sleeping with him though, I don't regret it....He is very tender, loving, and by far the best lover I've experience."


In the start of the relationship, there will be no problems with you two. Libra feels she is 'his' because Taurus tends to be very tender, direct, and sometimes, possessive. But note: Libra wanted to take it slow but was so nervous about Taurus's feelings that she jump deep (sleeping together) to please him. Or she just find him hot..

Taurus man’s point of view: (just started dating)
"I just decided I want this Libra girl! I felt I was pushing her away because I wasn't sure of my feelings, but upon seeing her with other guys, my inner bull just came out! I realized that it was her or nothing, for I missed her. But, I need her to know she is with me, so I asked her to lay down with me; she resisted at first -- which is good -- because I knew for a while she liked me, but yes, she didn't act like she was easy with every man. Now, she has moved her stuff in with me, and I can be with her. In bed, she was soft yet she satisfied me. I'm not in this relationship for short term, I need her to be the same."

Notice that Taurus isn't too keen on figuring out what the heck Libra is thinking about. He just made up his mind and charged! But he is in it for real, so Libra, pay close mind to "the" Taurus you choose. Its not fair to him if you are not serious, and its not fair to Libra if you have found a very controlling Taurus guy! 


DO YOU UNDERSTAND TAURUS AND LIBRA?!

Why Libra is seducing you

We Libras can easily titillate others. It’s one of the reasons why we were put on this earth, to charm are way into other peoples life. Though this sign isn't the rough and tough type in astrology, we can be quite seductive when we want. And if we really dig you, we won't stop until we make up our minds! Let me help you understand the game.

Let’s be honest Libra girls and boys, this sign can be a little predatory when it is single. Libra will see something they like, and if the person has a good personality too, they will put them on their romantic radar. It’s not that Libra's are players, its just they like to weigh every possible option before making up their minds. The cute blonde that works at the spa, the redhead with the tattoo, the guy with the fantastic smile; appearance wise, Libra has a good eye for it and there is a mental list of possible mates to check out. Of course, to Libra, looks are far from everything so they would always like to know you before diving to deep. Libra men take their time getting emotional with partners, while Libra women usually won't sleep with a guy right away, so don't rush them!

Libra's aren't all that determine or overly aggressive when it comes to getting a date or partner, but they can be rather endearing in love. For example, once a Libran has found someone they are passionate about, they are pretty hard to deter. Once they have made up their minds that they want YOU, they will ease their way into your life by being a good listener, sweet talking, charm, a serene and calm manner, but they still haven't made up their mind if you are the ONE for them though--Libra's are obsessed with finding the 'one,' so don't get ahead of yourself.

When a Libra likes you, its not that hard to tell. Look at their eyes; it has a twinkle in it, and they give warm smiles too. Libra is all about mental exercise so they can quite easily turn a sign on, especially if the sign was born under Aries, Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio. Libra sometimes give off the impression of getting heart-to-heart with you or making you think they were always there, so you can feel open and at ease with them. Some Libra's can even be quite flirtatious; it’s a common trait of this sign, though it does tend to be harmless when they are in a relationship.

Librans can be pretty sexy. When one has said something to you and you are left thinking, "Was that a sexual joke?" It probably was. Libra's are diplomatic and pay close mind to what they say, if you get the feeling your Libra friend tickled your body through your mind in a slightly erotic way, they are interested and trying to get you to be too. If you can match them but don't go too overboard, the Libra will be hooked.

When a Libra is seducing you, you will have all kinds of amorous thoughts in your head because of them! It is Libra's plan to seem attractive, be desirable, and interest you in relationship. Libra can feel detached and unemotional, but they are not boring people. They like romance and style in courtship, so they will very much seduce and talk your ear off if they like you enough.

But why are they seducing? A Libra man needs a girlfriend/best friend to date, then marry. The Libra woman wants a companion and gregarious environment. All Libras want a calm involvement and constant companionship. Libra woman has a reputation of being a gold digger, but this woman usually has money already--they just would like to have more. They are usually quite attractive people, and who wouldn't want a trophy wife with a romantic and gentle nature? The Libra is always moving up in the world; the Libra woman is looking for a man that can put her in a even better place then she is already. Libra are great at relationship management so if you feel the Libra's magic--that smile, that charm, that talkative nature, that romantic style, the powers of compromise, they are showing you that's what they can bring into the house, which you may love IF the Libra's style is what you are looking for in a partner.

 Anyway, be careful if a Libra is seducing and wooing you though. It is not that they are playing around with your feelings, they are getting you to like them, which is their first process in the dating game -- after they know you like them, they will begin to weigh you. Once a Libra falls deeply in love, you can be sure they are thinking about marriage.

I hope this helps you understand why Libra people charm you.  

Astrology Compatibility 101

Whats your sign? compatibility

I'm a Libra, I've been studying Western and Chinese Astrology most of my life, and I have a good idea about it so I'm blogging now. So, starting today, I will begin making blogs about whatever sign I'm interested in at the moment--or better yet, if anyone wants to comment to tell me a Sign they want to know about, love match, or personality, please feel free to let me know. But most importantly, this blog is about LIBRA, the scales. If you are a Libra, please stay with me and give a little feedback about yourself. I would love to hear where I'm wrong so I can fix it, and where I'm right so I know to move forward.

So, again, what is your sign? Since your here, you are probably a Libra…But no worries, I know us Libra’s are such self-centered creatures…Well, not really (typical indecisive Libran). We just want other points of view on things so we can make a decision! 

And if you are not a Libra and ran into this blog, you either love one, hate one, or can't understand one. Again, no worries, let me walk through this with you. 

If you are interested in astrology, Libra, and true compatibility, my blogs will try to fully convince you on my topic through facts. For example, I’m a firm believer in the Taurus-Libra love match; I have many Taurus friends, no Taurus in my chart (although my rising sign is in Scorpio) and I see nothing wrong with them! The truth is…..Western Astrology can be bull crap; some folks just look at it as if people don't have real traits and personalities. We just need to distinguish between the facts and no what can actually happen between two sun signs. What two signs, no matter what, go well together under most any situation? Thats true compatibility! Libra and Gemini, Taurus and Virgo, Cancer and Cancer, and many more.　

I also think Gemini and Virgo make a good match, though they are both mutable and may cause friction. 

If you are any sign in the zodiac, and/or is interested in Libra - learning how to get the scales to say yes to a date or commit, I will do my best to help any sign. Plus, I think any Western Sign can be a good match as a couple-sometimes, its fully about the people involved. So Aries, do you want to stop making your Libra cry? Cancer, you want Libra to stop fighting with you? Taurus, you want your Libra to stay at home with you more? Leo, want to keep your Libra around…Long-term? WHATEVER, I don’t care; I will, in the simplest form possible, try to show you why two signs get along and why they don’t. Understand why, why, why, is the best step to see how, how, how to make it work!