The Aries Man and Libra Woman - an excellent match!

Aries Man and Libra Woman - The Love Game

Below will help you understand your partner.

PART 1:

How to get an Aries man?

Dear Libra woman, 

The Aries man is sexy and great fun to be around. If she is having a hard time scoring her an Aries man, she might be doing something wrong - because it's not hard to do. She shouldn't try so hard and should never chase after him excessively. Put on your favorite dress and dress classy and resemble a sweet fluffy bunny or classy ladybug. He likes glamorous but don't over do it. If you dress like a hooker, he will treat you as such... Red is a color that gets his obvious attention - but also do dark greens and light blues and lace. He'll think you are carrying yourself to a high standard and it will catch his superficial eye: "Wow, she is a real life princess".

A introduction, just a little chat, is more then adequate. He will naturally take the initiative and chase after her himself. Don't hit aggressively on an Aries man, don't flirt like crazy and come on to them - to a Aries man, a woman chasing him and being obvious just means she wants his body and he'll take that if you'd let him, and he likes quick, easy pray. This is Aries after all, this direct sign really isn't into being chased or harassed, so don't nag him, ever. Honestly, just stand there like you have no sense of time and look cute. He speaks, reply. He asks a question, answer it honestly - he can smell a faker a mile away and he doesn't like needy, so don't be shy or awkward.

Walk away on purpose - you are really just too good for this Earth--he'll think so, too. Generally, the Libra woman can snag her an Aries man without much effort, she just sits and waits, batting her eyes a bit, till he finally comes over - like, explain to me why this is hard - that's called quixotic chemistry.


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How to get an Aries man?

Dear Aries man, 

if you are having a difficult time swaying a Libra woman in your favor, you might be too much - or you're too shy. She won't say it to your face nor can you tell, but your aggressiveness can knock her off balance if you are too contiguous. Aries man, you might need to work on your pickup lines or putting on the "show".

At the same time, if you are too shy and chicken, it will remind her of herself and that might have a negative effect on how she feels. Quick judgment is not out of her reach so please, have manners. Don't use dirty jokes on the first dates, but instead, try this thing called having a conversation. Also, the Libra woman pays too much attention to what a mate wears. "He would probably be really cute if I wasn't staring at the grease on his T-shirt." Totally Libra womanish. Aries man I know you like to be active, but put on some nice, good looking clothes around her and pretend to care about this kind of thing. She is shallow. MOST importantly, chase, chase, chase. I said don't be too brash, vulgar or aggressive. Being obvious and chasing is good. It will flatter her to be constantly approached - and you excel at this, right? Use your direct, masculinity and knightliness to take her breath away!


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PART 2:


How to know he likes you - wowzers!


Dear Libra woman,

You know it when an Aries man likes you - not exactly sure why this is a question. Every sign in the zodiac knows. For one, wasn't it obvious when you both stood across the room from each other and you felt his eyes fixed to you? When an Aries man is attracted, he will stare and kinda forget everyone else in the room even exist; that's the first way to know. You will feel his eyes. You could be lined up at the movies and even if he is directly behind you, you will feel his eyes. Another way to tell is if he starts an argument or is just rough on the edges to you. Aries does not mean grace, refinement or class, debating with you, pushing you and running away (like a 9 year old) are asking your opinion means he wants you to engage with him. He might be physical. You might be playing sports and he walks in front of the team (you) and takes his shirt off and pretend he is just sweating - all the while bearing his muscles are something. If you walk on the sidewalk and the Aries suddenly grabs you by the arm and saves you from a speeding bus and you are left holding and looking at him - wow, he just did that! Aries will flirt and point out your shoes or book or favorite show. He will flirt and play a little bit of mind games - "oh of course it's you, who else am I only staring at?" [smiles and walks away] Kind of flirting.

What Libra, are you stupid or something, how is it hard to see? Also, Aries does it better, if they like you, they'll protect you - like, using weird excuses to hold your hand or put their arm around you. Honestly, he won't play games with you if he is serious.  "Do you want my number?" "Can I come to the cafe to see you again Friday?" "Do you have a boyfriend?" "I would be the perfect boyfriend for you." "You're such a cutie," "I'm going to start calling you when I'm off work everyday," "I genuinely like you as a person...." "I feel differently about you then I do anyone else." "I'mah wait for you to change your mind." "I'm marrying this one." Aries romantic style is obvious, brave and complete, thick in urgency.

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How to know she likes you - mmhmmm~


Dear Aries man,

Sorry to say, but you'll likely have a harder time with this one - but be patient, you sexy beast! Most signs can't tell if a Libra likes them or just is being nice. Libra is flirting with a potato in the kitchen or this rock she saw at the playground - it's just how she appears. You are used to getting your way with females though - you got game, and you know it. I don't usually see Libra woman chasing Aries men - it just doesn't happen in the wild.  She is sometimes giving mix messages - just like me as I write this for you - sorry.

If she likes you, she will let you get your way with her, Aries; call her up, again and the next day too, the Libra is independent and will put up a wall but if she is interested, she will indulge you. Good sign. If she goes to your place to chill or talk - she likes you for real for real. No doubt, you will be confused dealing with a Libra woman, she is all about balance and tends to push and pull a lot. She might be overly bold or even start a heated debate - to push you away. Don't be fooled! It's a mating process of elimination. She did that to the Cancer guy the other day and he couldn't handle. She did it to the Gemini guy too and he didn't engage. She tried Leo and it just didn't work out. 9 times out of 10, the Aries guy will pick the fight right back with her and it will frighten her. Don't be rude, just hang with her. "OMG A REAL MAN~" She'll quietly scream.

Don't amuse because a Libra confided in you that they like you, the Libra woman is just a very honest, open sign. She'll tell you the truth, always, you just have to ask her for it. A Libra will use their bodies as a weapon - more so than any other sign. She smells like dirt and freshly dried paint at home, you think she always smells like honey suckle and apples? She is trying to invite suiters. She'll bend down to grab a pin off the ground and all of a sudden - you're like "wtf", her derriere is in your view point. Then, when you aren't expecting it, you'll bump into her by "accident" and you had no idea she was there. She is like, "omg, I am so sorry!" all the while, seducing you the whole way. Then, she listens to everything you want to talk about - EVERYTHING. The poor Aries man has no way of knowing or resisting - sigh. Chances are, if you like-like a Libra already Aries guys, she likes you too - she is just hanging back. If you are a more quiet, shy Aries type and are confused still, ask her. She'll be either, " No, I'm not interested ," or she'll say, "I like you too....." Bang, you have her.



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PART 3:

Friendship and spending time together


Dear Libra woman, 

While you maybe somewhat allergic to his blunt and shameless approach, with an Aries man, you have a possible intellectual equal. An Aries man is perhaps the only sign that has the energy to put up with her plots and scheems. Seriously, the Libra woman gets knocked off balance easy and plays -  it's cruel. The Aries man is not easily scared off by her nasty games. For a Libra woman, this kind of thing is very important. Moreover, generally she doesn't want someone that's emotional to the point of being weak (Cancer and Pisces types) and she dislikes boring (possibly Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo men) - but not only that, she hates liars and sneaks (Leo and Scorpio men) too; if she doesn't want somone exactly like herself, the Libra woman's style is cerebral and aggressive. This makes an Aries man prime pickings, since he can surely serve it back at her. Not only is he genuinely interested in her need to discuss everything under the sun, he has something to say. He is a horrible liar, so he changes his mind instead of lying. Rather than behind your back, he starts mess to your face, likes to debate and argue. Action and butting heads is his past time. And you're not idealistic enough to judge him without good reason, right?

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Dear Aries man, 

Sure enough, she might not always rub you the right way, since she is fuzzy-minded and a bit confusing and rarely but it happens, rude, but she is mostly soft and kinda sweet, and that's something you like to see. She might not have the drive and energy to match you, but she is nice enough to listen to what you have to say, even when you are being unreasonable and overbearing. After a fit of rage, she just sits there, waiting her turn to reply, and being able to vent makes you feel better in the end - after all the spot-light, you feel happy and less defensive over yourself. She is kind of your type, she is willing to talk and debate with you, but she isn't moody like other women - this makes you happy too; being able to blend with your lovely Libra lady and knowing she won't hold grudges, sulk, pout or go silent on you, makes you even happier to have found her. Besides, after a fight, when she lays that charm and sweetness on, it's hard to stay mad at her, no?




PART 4:

When it doesn't work


Dear Libra woman,

Not all Aries are the same and you will find certain ones that you might still be attracted to but should stay far away from. So Libra, you have to find out of he is intellectual enough for your taste. Cultural difference and intellectual level determines this relationship 100%. Can you think of something worst then a Aries that lies and plays games? I legit cannot. If you're posh and he is ghetto, politely decline. I am dead serious - even if he begs, claiming you are the one for him, don't do it. You will argue for no reason, about the dumbest things, he'll think going to the club is fine, while you want a stable home, etc,. -- and the aggressive, selfish Aries will never give in, while the Libra will seek to put things the way they want it. An unreasonable Aries man is one of the most intolerable things in the zodiac. If he is stomping around the house meanly all day and seeing other women, ultimatums should be offered, at which if the behavior continues, let him rot - remember, Libra and Aries are karmically linked. Now when you agree on the same things in life and have decent communication, that's wonderful, soul-mate stuff.


Dear Aries man, 

You won't like all Libra women, some are too stern and mean for your taste, while others are too shallow and plastic for you. Be on a look out for a lot of earth signs in her chart. If you met one that thinks and acts like she is better than you, just go chase someone else. You don't like to be controlled and overshadowed by anyone - if you notice that's her type, you might wanna miss out on that one--just saying. Some are obviously not on the same intellectual levels, lying and roaming about, trying to better herself--leave that one. You ever heard of the unbalanced scales? If you notice this, politely tell them why and leave quietly. If you're a CEO and you found a lovely Libra lady on the street, please leave her on the streets, unless you have an actual connection - and even then, Aries, you are too naive to know if she is using you are not - if you disagree a lot, it should be a sign. Leave her and find one that likes to have deep talks and hold her accountable for her bs; Libra women tend to know quickly whether or not this relationship will work, but ALL too often, I see committed, decent Aries guys holding on to ratchet Libra women, as if she is the best you can get your hand on - let her leave - karma's got you, bb.


Part 5: 

Conclusion.....

Dear Aries man and Libra woman,

All in all, this match is grand. Her womanliness and charm, coupled with some indecisions goes so well with his direct, masculine approach that it's impossible to deny; indeed, it will leave everyone around puzzled and enchanted (including one another) seeing how naturally they hit it off. On a similar intellectual level or a similar cultural view, this is a match made in sweet heaven. He is kinda outwardly selfish and tends to look after himself. Libra would much rather not be unpleasant and grumpy, if only the more selfish Ram plays fair with them. If the Aries tries to understand the Venus nature, being just a little more sympathetic, the Libra will react kindly, showering him with attention and affection instead - and both their moods are lifted - problem solved. Her calm gentleness will boost his self-confidence, while she'll be forever entertained by his reactive, manly mannerism.



If you are a Aries or Libra and need help with your partner - or you want to share a story with you mate, leave a comment; 


I reply and love hear interesting stories. 

Taurus man and Libra woman scenario: Commitment problems.

A Taurus man and a Libra woman are interested in each other; this is a scenario and “how” they are probably viewing each other in the beginning of the dating process. Watch how Taurus is taking his time to make up his mind, while Libra so worried about the whole relationship that shes getting worried. 

Attraction between Taurus man and Libra woman


Libra woman’s point of view: (before dating)
"Just started seeing a Taurus man. So far, pretty good. He is a little too quiet for my liking, but anyway(!) he is still very handsome and I can't wait for our next date, if only he'd plan one. His shoulders and skin tone is so attractive to me. He has a deep, manly voice and strong personality, which give me goosebumps when we are having a good time! But sometimes, I can't tell if he likes me for real because one minute, he is nice, the next, he is gone. I'm actually pretty confused, and its starting to make me doubt his feelings, but I'm hoping he is ready to show his feeling soon and take it slow with me." 

Libra wants to take it slow, but that doesn't mean bore her, Taurus.


Taurus man’s point of view: (before dating)
"I'm trying to find out if I should date this Libra girl for real. She is very pleasant, and has such wonderfully feminine features. Her voice is rich and creamy, and she looks so delicate that I'm sure a lot of men are after her. She has been calling me on the phone a lot, I liked it, but to be honest, its a bit much. We aren't even dating, really. I mean, I would have no problem in asking her out on a date, its only she has much more friends than me. I won't feel good if she is always with other people (men) so its a decision I'm still thinking about."

Taurus likes what he sees, but he is not sure if he should go with it. So Libra, don't flirt with Taurus if you aren't ready for a long bull ride. That just sounded dirty...

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Part II


Libra woman’s point of view: (just started dating)
"This relationship is great. My Taurus is super affectionate and drowns me in gifts. I love how he protects me, and yes, he is quite the jealous man, though he tries to hide it. Moreover, we have started living together; I didn't want us to jump this way so fast, I wanted to date him but I wasn't sure if he was the "one", you know? As you know, I found him very attractive and I liked him, but he suddenly gotten a little pushy and needy, so I thought it fair to go with him. After sleeping with him though, I don't regret it....He is very tender, loving, and by far the best lover I've experience."


In the start of the relationship, there will be no problems with you two. Libra feels she is 'his' because Taurus tends to be very tender, direct, and sometimes, possessive. But note: Libra wanted to take it slow but was so nervous about Taurus's feelings that she jump deep (sleeping together) to please him. Or she just find him hot..

Taurus man’s point of view: (just started dating)
"I just decided I want this Libra girl! I felt I was pushing her away because I wasn't sure of my feelings, but upon seeing her with other guys, my inner bull just came out! I realized that it was her or nothing, for I missed her. But, I need her to know she is with me, so I asked her to lay down with me; she resisted at first -- which is good -- because I knew for a while she liked me, but yes, she didn't act like she was easy with every man. Now, she has moved her stuff in with me, and I can be with her. In bed, she was soft yet she satisfied me. I'm not in this relationship for short term, I need her to be the same."

Notice that Taurus isn't too keen on figuring out what the heck Libra is thinking about. He just made up his mind and charged! But he is in it for real, so Libra, pay close mind to "the" Taurus you choose. Its not fair to him if you are not serious, and its not fair to Libra if you have found a very controlling Taurus guy! 


DO YOU UNDERSTAND TAURUS AND LIBRA?!

Why Libra is seducing you

We Libras can easily titillate others. It’s one of the reasons why we were put on this earth, to charm are way into other peoples life. Though this sign isn't the rough and tough type in astrology, we can be quite seductive when we want. And if we really dig you, we won't stop until we make up our minds! Let me help you understand the game.

Let’s be honest Libra girls and boys, this sign can be a little predatory when it is single. Libra will see something they like, and if the person has a good personality too, they will put them on their romantic radar. It’s not that Libra's are players, its just they like to weigh every possible option before making up their minds. The cute blonde that works at the spa, the redhead with the tattoo, the guy with the fantastic smile; appearance wise, Libra has a good eye for it and there is a mental list of possible mates to check out. Of course, to Libra, looks are far from everything so they would always like to know you before diving to deep. Libra men take their time getting emotional with partners, while Libra women usually won't sleep with a guy right away, so don't rush them!

Libra's aren't all that determine or overly aggressive when it comes to getting a date or partner, but they can be rather endearing in love. For example, once a Libran has found someone they are passionate about, they are pretty hard to deter. Once they have made up their minds that they want YOU, they will ease their way into your life by being a good listener, sweet talking, charm, a serene and calm manner, but they still haven't made up their mind if you are the ONE for them though--Libra's are obsessed with finding the 'one,' so don't get ahead of yourself.

When a Libra likes you, its not that hard to tell. Look at their eyes; it has a twinkle in it, and they give warm smiles too. Libra is all about mental exercise so they can quite easily turn a sign on, especially if the sign was born under Aries, Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio. Libra sometimes give off the impression of getting heart-to-heart with you or making you think they were always there, so you can feel open and at ease with them. Some Libra's can even be quite flirtatious; it’s a common trait of this sign, though it does tend to be harmless when they are in a relationship.

Librans can be pretty sexy. When one has said something to you and you are left thinking, "Was that a sexual joke?" It probably was. Libra's are diplomatic and pay close mind to what they say, if you get the feeling your Libra friend tickled your body through your mind in a slightly erotic way, they are interested and trying to get you to be too. If you can match them but don't go too overboard, the Libra will be hooked.

When a Libra is seducing you, you will have all kinds of amorous thoughts in your head because of them! It is Libra's plan to seem attractive, be desirable, and interest you in relationship. Libra can feel detached and unemotional, but they are not boring people. They like romance and style in courtship, so they will very much seduce and talk your ear off if they like you enough.

But why are they seducing? A Libra man needs a girlfriend/best friend to date, then marry. The Libra woman wants a companion and gregarious environment. All Libras want a calm involvement and constant companionship. Libra woman has a reputation of being a gold digger, but this woman usually has money already--they just would like to have more. They are usually quite attractive people, and who wouldn't want a trophy wife with a romantic and gentle nature? The Libra is always moving up in the world; the Libra woman is looking for a man that can put her in a even better place then she is already. Libra are great at relationship management so if you feel the Libra's magic--that smile, that charm, that talkative nature, that romantic style, the powers of compromise, they are showing you that's what they can bring into the house, which you may love IF the Libra's style is what you are looking for in a partner.

 Anyway, be careful if a Libra is seducing and wooing you though. It is not that they are playing around with your feelings, they are getting you to like them, which is their first process in the dating game -- after they know you like them, they will begin to weigh you. Once a Libra falls deeply in love, you can be sure they are thinking about marriage.

I hope this helps you understand why Libra people charm you.  

Astrology Compatibility 101

Whats your sign? compatibility

I'm a Libra, I've been studying Western and Chinese Astrology most of my life, and I have a good idea about it so I'm blogging now. So, starting today, I will begin making blogs about whatever sign I'm interested in at the moment--or better yet, if anyone wants to comment to tell me a Sign they want to know about, love match, or personality, please feel free to let me know. But most importantly, this blog is about LIBRA, the scales. If you are a Libra, please stay with me and give a little feedback about yourself. I would love to hear where I'm wrong so I can fix it, and where I'm right so I know to move forward.

So, again, what is your sign? Since your here, you are probably a Libra…But no worries, I know us Libra’s are such self-centered creatures…Well, not really (typical indecisive Libran). We just want other points of view on things so we can make a decision! 

And if you are not a Libra and ran into this blog, you either love one, hate one, or can't understand one. Again, no worries, let me walk through this with you. 

If you are interested in astrology, Libra, and true compatibility, my blogs will try to fully convince you on my topic through facts. For example, I’m a firm believer in the Taurus-Libra love match; I have many Taurus friends, no Taurus in my chart (although my rising sign is in Scorpio) and I see nothing wrong with them! The truth is…..Western Astrology can be bull crap; some folks just look at it as if people don't have real traits and personalities. We just need to distinguish between the facts and no what can actually happen between two sun signs. What two signs, no matter what, go well together under most any situation? Thats true compatibility! Libra and Gemini, Taurus and Virgo, Cancer and Cancer, and many more.　

I also think Gemini and Virgo make a good match, though they are both mutable and may cause friction. 

If you are any sign in the zodiac, and/or is interested in Libra - learning how to get the scales to say yes to a date or commit, I will do my best to help any sign. Plus, I think any Western Sign can be a good match as a couple-sometimes, its fully about the people involved. So Aries, do you want to stop making your Libra cry? Cancer, you want Libra to stop fighting with you? Taurus, you want your Libra to stay at home with you more? Leo, want to keep your Libra around…Long-term? WHATEVER, I don’t care; I will, in the simplest form possible, try to show you why two signs get along and why they don’t. Understand why, why, why, is the best step to see how, how, how to make it work!