The Aries Man and Libra Woman - an excellent match!

Aries Man and Libra Woman - The Love Game

Below will help you understand your partner.

PART 1:

How to get an Aries man?

Dear Libra woman, 

The Aries man is sexy and great fun to be around. If she is having a hard time scoring her an Aries man, she might be doing something wrong - because it's not hard to do. She shouldn't try so hard and should never chase after him excessively. Put on your favorite dress and dress classy and resemble a sweet fluffy bunny or classy ladybug. He likes glamorous but don't over do it. If you dress like a hooker, he will treat you as such... Red is a color that gets his obvious attention - but also do dark greens and light blues and lace. He'll think you are carrying yourself to a high standard and it will catch his superficial eye: "Wow, she is a real life princess".

A introduction, just a little chat, is more then adequate. He will naturally take the initiative and chase after her himself. Don't hit aggressively on an Aries man, don't flirt like crazy and come on to them - to a Aries man, a woman chasing him and being obvious just means she wants his body and he'll take that if you'd let him, and he likes quick, easy pray. This is Aries after all, this direct sign really isn't into being chased or harassed, so don't nag him, ever. Honestly, just stand there like you have no sense of time and look cute. He speaks, reply. He asks a question, answer it honestly - he can smell a faker a mile away and he doesn't like needy, so don't be shy or awkward.

Walk away on purpose - you are really just too good for this Earth--he'll think so, too. Generally, the Libra woman can snag her an Aries man without much effort, she just sits and waits, batting her eyes a bit, till he finally comes over - like, explain to me why this is hard - that's called quixotic chemistry.


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How to get an Aries man?

Dear Aries man, 

if you are having a difficult time swaying a Libra woman in your favor, you might be too much - or you're too shy. She won't say it to your face nor can you tell, but your aggressiveness can knock her off balance if you are too contiguous. Aries man, you might need to work on your pickup lines or putting on the "show".

At the same time, if you are too shy and chicken, it will remind her of herself and that might have a negative effect on how she feels. Quick judgment is not out of her reach so please, have manners. Don't use dirty jokes on the first dates, but instead, try this thing called having a conversation. Also, the Libra woman pays too much attention to what a mate wears. "He would probably be really cute if I wasn't staring at the grease on his T-shirt." Totally Libra womanish. Aries man I know you like to be active, but put on some nice, good looking clothes around her and pretend to care about this kind of thing. She is shallow. MOST importantly, chase, chase, chase. I said don't be too brash, vulgar or aggressive. Being obvious and chasing is good. It will flatter her to be constantly approached - and you excel at this, right? Use your direct, masculinity and knightliness to take her breath away!


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PART 2:


How to know he likes you - wowzers!


Dear Libra woman,

You know it when an Aries man likes you - not exactly sure why this is a question. Every sign in the zodiac knows. For one, wasn't it obvious when you both stood across the room from each other and you felt his eyes fixed to you? When an Aries man is attracted, he will stare and kinda forget everyone else in the room even exist; that's the first way to know. You will feel his eyes. You could be lined up at the movies and even if he is directly behind you, you will feel his eyes. Another way to tell is if he starts an argument or is just rough on the edges to you. Aries does not mean grace, refinement or class, debating with you, pushing you and running away (like a 9 year old) are asking your opinion means he wants you to engage with him. He might be physical. You might be playing sports and he walks in front of the team (you) and takes his shirt off and pretend he is just sweating - all the while bearing his muscles are something. If you walk on the sidewalk and the Aries suddenly grabs you by the arm and saves you from a speeding bus and you are left holding and looking at him - wow, he just did that! Aries will flirt and point out your shoes or book or favorite show. He will flirt and play a little bit of mind games - "oh of course it's you, who else am I only staring at?" [smiles and walks away] Kind of flirting.

What Libra, are you stupid or something, how is it hard to see? Also, Aries does it better, if they like you, they'll protect you - like, using weird excuses to hold your hand or put their arm around you. Honestly, he won't play games with you if he is serious.  "Do you want my number?" "Can I come to the cafe to see you again Friday?" "Do you have a boyfriend?" "I would be the perfect boyfriend for you." "You're such a cutie," "I'm going to start calling you when I'm off work everyday," "I genuinely like you as a person...." "I feel differently about you then I do anyone else." "I'mah wait for you to change your mind." "I'm marrying this one." Aries romantic style is obvious, brave and complete, thick in urgency.

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How to know she likes you - mmhmmm~


Dear Aries man,

Sorry to say, but you'll likely have a harder time with this one - but be patient, you sexy beast! Most signs can't tell if a Libra likes them or just is being nice. Libra is flirting with a potato in the kitchen or this rock she saw at the playground - it's just how she appears. You are used to getting your way with females though - you got game, and you know it. I don't usually see Libra woman chasing Aries men - it just doesn't happen in the wild.  She is sometimes giving mix messages - just like me as I write this for you - sorry.

If she likes you, she will let you get your way with her, Aries; call her up, again and the next day too, the Libra is independent and will put up a wall but if she is interested, she will indulge you. Good sign. If she goes to your place to chill or talk - she likes you for real for real. No doubt, you will be confused dealing with a Libra woman, she is all about balance and tends to push and pull a lot. She might be overly bold or even start a heated debate - to push you away. Don't be fooled! It's a mating process of elimination. She did that to the Cancer guy the other day and he couldn't handle. She did it to the Gemini guy too and he didn't engage. She tried Leo and it just didn't work out. 9 times out of 10, the Aries guy will pick the fight right back with her and it will frighten her. Don't be rude, just hang with her. "OMG A REAL MAN~" She'll quietly scream.

Don't amuse because a Libra confided in you that they like you, the Libra woman is just a very honest, open sign. She'll tell you the truth, always, you just have to ask her for it. A Libra will use their bodies as a weapon - more so than any other sign. She smells like dirt and freshly dried paint at home, you think she always smells like honey suckle and apples? She is trying to invite suiters. She'll bend down to grab a pin off the ground and all of a sudden - you're like "wtf", her derriere is in your view point. Then, when you aren't expecting it, you'll bump into her by "accident" and you had no idea she was there. She is like, "omg, I am so sorry!" all the while, seducing you the whole way. Then, she listens to everything you want to talk about - EVERYTHING. The poor Aries man has no way of knowing or resisting - sigh. Chances are, if you like-like a Libra already Aries guys, she likes you too - she is just hanging back. If you are a more quiet, shy Aries type and are confused still, ask her. She'll be either, " No, I'm not interested ," or she'll say, "I like you too....." Bang, you have her.



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PART 3:

Friendship and spending time together


Dear Libra woman, 

While you maybe somewhat allergic to his blunt and shameless approach, with an Aries man, you have a possible intellectual equal. An Aries man is perhaps the only sign that has the energy to put up with her plots and scheems. Seriously, the Libra woman gets knocked off balance easy and plays -  it's cruel. The Aries man is not easily scared off by her nasty games. For a Libra woman, this kind of thing is very important. Moreover, generally she doesn't want someone that's emotional to the point of being weak (Cancer and Pisces types) and she dislikes boring (possibly Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo men) - but not only that, she hates liars and sneaks (Leo and Scorpio men) too; if she doesn't want somone exactly like herself, the Libra woman's style is cerebral and aggressive. This makes an Aries man prime pickings, since he can surely serve it back at her. Not only is he genuinely interested in her need to discuss everything under the sun, he has something to say. He is a horrible liar, so he changes his mind instead of lying. Rather than behind your back, he starts mess to your face, likes to debate and argue. Action and butting heads is his past time. And you're not idealistic enough to judge him without good reason, right?

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Dear Aries man, 

Sure enough, she might not always rub you the right way, since she is fuzzy-minded and a bit confusing and rarely but it happens, rude, but she is mostly soft and kinda sweet, and that's something you like to see. She might not have the drive and energy to match you, but she is nice enough to listen to what you have to say, even when you are being unreasonable and overbearing. After a fit of rage, she just sits there, waiting her turn to reply, and being able to vent makes you feel better in the end - after all the spot-light, you feel happy and less defensive over yourself. She is kind of your type, she is willing to talk and debate with you, but she isn't moody like other women - this makes you happy too; being able to blend with your lovely Libra lady and knowing she won't hold grudges, sulk, pout or go silent on you, makes you even happier to have found her. Besides, after a fight, when she lays that charm and sweetness on, it's hard to stay mad at her, no?




PART 4:

When it doesn't work


Dear Libra woman,

Not all Aries are the same and you will find certain ones that you might still be attracted to but should stay far away from. So Libra, you have to find out of he is intellectual enough for your taste. Cultural difference and intellectual level determines this relationship 100%. Can you think of something worst then a Aries that lies and plays games? I legit cannot. If you're posh and he is ghetto, politely decline. I am dead serious - even if he begs, claiming you are the one for him, don't do it. You will argue for no reason, about the dumbest things, he'll think going to the club is fine, while you want a stable home, etc,. -- and the aggressive, selfish Aries will never give in, while the Libra will seek to put things the way they want it. An unreasonable Aries man is one of the most intolerable things in the zodiac. If he is stomping around the house meanly all day and seeing other women, ultimatums should be offered, at which if the behavior continues, let him rot - remember, Libra and Aries are karmically linked. Now when you agree on the same things in life and have decent communication, that's wonderful, soul-mate stuff.


Dear Aries man, 

You won't like all Libra women, some are too stern and mean for your taste, while others are too shallow and plastic for you. Be on a look out for a lot of earth signs in her chart. If you met one that thinks and acts like she is better than you, just go chase someone else. You don't like to be controlled and overshadowed by anyone - if you notice that's her type, you might wanna miss out on that one--just saying. Some are obviously not on the same intellectual levels, lying and roaming about, trying to better herself--leave that one. You ever heard of the unbalanced scales? If you notice this, politely tell them why and leave quietly. If you're a CEO and you found a lovely Libra lady on the street, please leave her on the streets, unless you have an actual connection - and even then, Aries, you are too naive to know if she is using you are not - if you disagree a lot, it should be a sign. Leave her and find one that likes to have deep talks and hold her accountable for her bs; Libra women tend to know quickly whether or not this relationship will work, but ALL too often, I see committed, decent Aries guys holding on to ratchet Libra women, as if she is the best you can get your hand on - let her leave - karma's got you, bb.


Part 5: 

Conclusion.....

Dear Aries man and Libra woman,

All in all, this match is grand. Her womanliness and charm, coupled with some indecisions goes so well with his direct, masculine approach that it's impossible to deny; indeed, it will leave everyone around puzzled and enchanted (including one another) seeing how naturally they hit it off. On a similar intellectual level or a similar cultural view, this is a match made in sweet heaven. He is kinda outwardly selfish and tends to look after himself. Libra would much rather not be unpleasant and grumpy, if only the more selfish Ram plays fair with them. If the Aries tries to understand the Venus nature, being just a little more sympathetic, the Libra will react kindly, showering him with attention and affection instead - and both their moods are lifted - problem solved. Her calm gentleness will boost his self-confidence, while she'll be forever entertained by his reactive, manly mannerism.



If you are a Aries or Libra and need help with your partner - or you want to share a story with you mate, leave a comment; 


I reply and love hear interesting stories. 

The Horse born in Libra

Libra Horse personality:

Because of the Libra Horses reliable temperament and consistent moods, they are sought after for friendships and love partners. They are compulsive talkers and good listeners. Whoever they are with, they are with 100% of the time and and have an unnatural ability to make others feel calmed and supported. They value loyalty the most and give others a lot of attention, as they are attentive and warm.

Because of the strong presence of both signs, Libra Horses have a quiet power about them. Even at their most gentle and relaxed moods, there is an underlying silent strength that can be felt from them. Others feel this silent strength from them instantly, and may be drawn to the Libra Horses warm and solid personality. They are extremely strong-willed and have a lot of drive; are confident, and easy-going, and others assume they are always in a good mood, however, this is a complex sign that changes from certainty and doubt on a daily bases. Only they hide this well. 

They are known for being enduring, talkative, elegant, reliable, kind, friendly, and down-to-earth. They are also polite, playful, and don't like to hurt others feelings. They are balanced emotionally, kind and uncomplicated.

Whatever the case maybe, these people have a strong hold of their moods and almost never go to extremes, though they can if they want, but usually choose not to. In fact, they are gentle and go after everything elegantly, but this Libra's gentleness is backed-up by the power and forceful drive of the Horse. 

Libra Horses have dual personalities: they like to go where they want, do what they want, are independent and extremely strong-willed - yet, at the same time, love to talk and are not often happy when spending time alone, they much prefer company over solitude.

At the same time, they can be fussy, quick-tempered, and cantankerous when they decide to get angry - yet, they rather bow out of arguments - they are not trouble makers, they want others to know how graceful and elegant they are.

Compatibility: Love and Friendship.
The Libran Horse normally has solid connections with partners as they are fairly perceptive and understanding of the needs of others. Due to their consistent moods and mild mannerism, they make wonderful love partners who put their loved ones before themselves. Their reliable mood and light-hearted nature makes them fun to be around, and they will follow their love partner first. They are loving and quite passionate when in love and try not to let you down. However, there is a warning for these people to hold their passion in high regard - as a result, they get disappointed very easy. They want everyone to be as perfect as they try to be and become deeply disappointed when others do not. They need balance to be happy and will seek partners they can have deep conversations with, and who they can help and can look after each other. 

Romance & Sex
These people have a weakness for flattery and like the idea of romance. When they fall in love, they are loving, romantic, poetic, and amongst the most passionate of all Libras - they are quite upfront about their feelings, reliable, and powerfully seductive. They calm your nerves and make wonderful listeners. Its guarantee bliss between the sheets when these people release their ardor, showering their partners with love and affection - they are good with their hands and are powerful performers in bed, who will make sure their love is satisfied and sleeping thoroughly throughout the night.


Weakness in the Libra Horse:
Weaknesses in these personalities are based around disturbances of their usually well balanced emotions. The Libran Horse's mild manners and stable mood is constant most of the time but it can be prone to become inconsistent. This occurs when they are upset or extremely disappointed about something. They tend to go into a quiet mode, may stop talking, become distant and may even give off a air of detachment. A Libran Horse's character will then begin to waver and they may become unpredictable in their actions or words. At their worst, this sign hides a flaming temper. They usually feel quite sorry afterwards. These little moments of madness are almost always short lived and very, very rare. 


More-About Horse-

The Horse is the most masculine sign in the zodiac and represents happiness and optimism, strength and physical endurance. Even though Horse women appear gentle and beautifully feminine, all Horses have strong personalities and aggressively defend their freedom. Even though they are selfish, they are extremely patient when it comes to hearing what others have to say. They possess a mental thought process characterized by lightning-quick speed and can guess what others are going to say even before they say it - because they hear everything as patterns. They are tireless workhorses and multitaskers, talkative, self-confident, fond of exercise, liable to physical and mental exhaustion and insomnia, and temperamentally impatient to the point of explosiveness. They sometimes talk too much, hate feeling trapped, need space, are childish, and anxious. But also friendly, logical, warm, witty, open-minded, and sexy.

Best Match for Horse: Tiger (Similar personalities), Dog (Speak the same language), Sheep (Care for each other), Dragon (Madly in love), Monkey (Caring and reliable), Horse(same goals) - stay away from Rat, Snake, Rabbit, Ox - they will try to control your free-spirited self!

About Libra:
As the scales, these people weigh everything around them - due to this, they make excellent judges, physiologist, counselors, teachers and therapist. They are also considered the sign of the people and marriage because they are so good at balancing others. However they have a natural BS detector and love to debate. They are the peace dealers of the zodiac, diplomatic, talkative, easy-going, tolerant, gentle, and airy. Their strongest point stands in their ability to weigh and balance others and situations with a clear, unbiased mind. They are indecisive and a bit lazy, but when they make up their mind, they are usually right because they float around everyone and everything. That being said, Libras tend to be quite beautiful and are rarely single because it is their job to mediate, balance, and work with other people. These people tend to work through their minds and are intellectual, and rarely let their emotions get the best of them. They are also romantic, like culture, art, has a sharp eye for beauty, and don't like being alone.

The Taurus Horse Personality

The Open-minded Taurus

Other names: Talented Tyrant, Moderate Taurus Horse,(you are very independent, yet you like socializing. You are quick-tempered but hide this well. You are passionate but unexpressive. You may take a while to find the one.)

- Appearance of the Open-minded Taurus-
Taurus is usually quite attractive because they have soft yet distinctive facial features. Your hair is probably thick with thin haired, eyebrows. Your nose is probably not very long, or very pointy. Round eyes. Your eyes are so warm and beautiful that others have a hard time telling if you are upset or not; your eye color is probably a light color. Though you are a serious worker, your smile is a dangerous weapon. Long neck, likely to be thick.  This is a big difference in males and females born under this sign. Male are usually very muscular and both have small wrists.  Your head shape is mostly soft and roundish, not a very strong head shape or any definition. Soft body, (even if heavy) strong arms and soft limbs. Appearance may vary as parents (genetics play a strong role), although many of this people some to have this traits.

Personality-
--This is not a jealous Taurus. They can control things, but they are not possessive either! How amazing are you. You are usually a friendly and considerate personality. You can party well if you'd like, but you need that mental calm too. You are very determined when you make up your mind about where you want to be in life. You can sit down, read the situation quietly, and then, say something or make a move. It’s very intelligent. You are not that above others--you will listen to others advice and hear someone out and think about it later, in both a practical and reasonable way. You have a plan -- though you alternate your "plan" weekly, you are in a almost constant search to reach your goal. Others see you as someone friendly, and people who know you well know just how articulate you can be. You are no normal Taurus. You may collect Money or not, but you're really not into the whole greedy for money "just so" thing. You like the challenge and aspiration of attaining it. You are also almost intellectual, and know how to talk...When you feel like it. Unfortunately, you are somewhat of a loner and have "little time" to play around. You really don't like to be distracted from whatever you are doing, so when someone is going against you, you kick 'em aside, and you may not even be aware of it. Your close ones are aware though--just saying. Others can actually be off put by your need for what you want. You are still a Taurus, so when scared, sad, upset, you can be stubborn, and if you don't choose to fix the problem, you will be withdrawn. But that’s your life and you are only being realistic; regardless of how busy you are, you are fantastic company to be around. You have a lot to talk about and many topics and interests!

You have a sense of humor, calm nature that can very easily stop others from worrying. You are charming and tend to make somewhat precious facial expressions that others are drawn to. Yes, being a Taurus, you can be a bit predictable, but you aren't that redundant with people, unless you really like the person, so others view your charm as interesting. You try to be reliable to close friends and like to eat and travel. You like being at home with close ones, but you really like to travel. Of all the signs, this can be one of the best at socialize--yet, here lies your biggest weakness, you are nice when you feel like it, and you need a lot of space, which most just don't understand. You have few close friends and your future obsession makes your loved ones feel frustrated. And when others don't appreciate how nice and hardworking you are, you feel heavy-hearted and moody. But seriously, you will find that "one". So don't get to worried if your love affairs don't last too long. You tell others just "what it is" you want and/or doing, but unless you are sensitive to others feelings, you will not be easy to express your feelings yourself. You rush to help a friend, and can even show sympathy.   Despite your wonderful personality, you won't go having your heartbroken. You take a long time to trust someone, so others don't know where they stand with you, romantically. You care about reaching your goal and you are unwilling to express your emotions so easy.

 All in all, however, you are strong, reasonable, loyal, independent, caring, communicative, talented, and reasonable. You can be whatever you want, as long as it interests you, but you are great with your hands! 

Relationships-
Relationships for you can be....irritating for both parties. It is not that you don't want to love, its just relationship don't seem to last very long. Why? Your old partners know why. You don't have time for them. This person is so focused on something other then their certain mate--and I bet, unless the person seems to REALLY understand you, they would have left you. I'm a Libra (born during the year of the horse) seeing a open-minded Taurus person. He showers me with love and attention. He would ask to be with me, and I felt affections so I always said yes. However, once they think you like them, they leave--off into their own thoughts. I was left questioning all the sweet things he said; he was also unaffectionate in public and got bored easy.
Males born under this sign can be quickly flirty and passionate, but unexpressive, so careful for both parties!

But unless they find someone they really like, they either have shady relations or just play around, and by play I mean be wooing more than one person...They can also be moody and grumpy. And for some reason, the madder they are, the madder they get. I am not saying they are horrible husbands and wives -- I love my Taurus -- and they do seem to like children, and ARE faithful when they do settle. Its just that this Taurus really needs to want it to work for it to last. A understanding person to put up with their need for space, a talkative person so they can express themselves easy, and a patient person when they....you know, that’s the type of person they will end up with in the end. In long-term, they are much different; they are more open, do whatever it takes to provide for loved ones, and they are passionate.

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Best matches for the Open-Minded Taurus person:

Types of Aries:

--Aries Tigers: This person maybe too unreliable and affectionate for you, but if you won't mind this it can work. 70% compatible

--Aries Horse: Attraction! You are pals. Very different personalities. But you both need to dig a little deeper to show you care. And both have tempers. 70% compatible

--Aries Dog: This is a very loyal, noble Aries, so it can work. 75% compatible

Types of Taurus:

--Taurus Tiger: Both like independence and the home. This Taurus is on a even level with you. If one of you want it, it can be pretty good. Boredom is possible, unless you do something about it. 78% compatible

--Taurus Dragon: Can work if you both want it. This Dragon is kind to you at first, until your selfishness and their temper gets in the way. At some point one might walk away. 60% compatible

--Taurus Horse: Since you are similar of course it can work. You are both passionate and independent. It might take a long time to be completely open with each other. Don't get jealous and fight inwardly with each other though. 78% compatible

--Taurus Sheep: This person is someone you will consider too much because they are very needy. You both want a lot of the same things so you can be happy, if you adapt. And then there is the boredom thing... 76% compatible

--Taurus Rooster: Given you laid down the rules, this can be a good match. You are both loyal about relationship. But if there is a problem, you both won't know how to handle it. 65% compatible

--Taurus Dog: This dog has a hard time settling with you. Thats because both are unsure of each other’s feelings. A lot of understanding is needed, but if they are willing to change, go for it. 80% compatible

Types of Gemini:

--Gemini Tiger: Best Gemini for you. But this persons moods can be too much for you. Both are gone a lot. You may flee if this continues in a sour note. 80% compatible

---Gemini Snake: Attraction alert. Very different and somewhat, similar. There needs some learning to do though. I smell infidelity... 70% compatible

--Gemini Horse: This can work if you are married or both want it. Moments or irritability is likely. Who the hell is keeping you both together though? Someone will have to be patient and chase the other. 70% compatible

--Gemini Goat: This can work. But I see you both drafting apart unless there is a strong attraction. 60% compatible

--Gemini Dog: Can be good if your inner differences are understood. Both like company and time alone too.  77% compatible

---Gemini Pig: This can work and will work as things start, but later, you are both left drifting around until someone acts affectionate enough for the other. 70% compatible

 Note: This is not complete. I will add more signs love matches soon.