The Aries Man and Libra Woman - an excellent match!

Aries Man and Libra Woman - The Love Game

Below will help you understand your partner.

PART 1:

How to get an Aries man?

Dear Libra woman, 

The Aries man is sexy and great fun to be around. If she is having a hard time scoring her an Aries man, she might be doing something wrong - because it's not hard to do. She shouldn't try so hard and should never chase after him excessively. Put on your favorite dress and dress classy and resemble a sweet fluffy bunny or classy ladybug. He likes glamorous but don't over do it. If you dress like a hooker, he will treat you as such... Red is a color that gets his obvious attention - but also do dark greens and light blues and lace. He'll think you are carrying yourself to a high standard and it will catch his superficial eye: "Wow, she is a real life princess".

A introduction, just a little chat, is more then adequate. He will naturally take the initiative and chase after her himself. Don't hit aggressively on an Aries man, don't flirt like crazy and come on to them - to a Aries man, a woman chasing him and being obvious just means she wants his body and he'll take that if you'd let him, and he likes quick, easy pray. This is Aries after all, this direct sign really isn't into being chased or harassed, so don't nag him, ever. Honestly, just stand there like you have no sense of time and look cute. He speaks, reply. He asks a question, answer it honestly - he can smell a faker a mile away and he doesn't like needy, so don't be shy or awkward.

Walk away on purpose - you are really just too good for this Earth--he'll think so, too. Generally, the Libra woman can snag her an Aries man without much effort, she just sits and waits, batting her eyes a bit, till he finally comes over - like, explain to me why this is hard - that's called quixotic chemistry.


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How to get an Aries man?

Dear Aries man, 

if you are having a difficult time swaying a Libra woman in your favor, you might be too much - or you're too shy. She won't say it to your face nor can you tell, but your aggressiveness can knock her off balance if you are too contiguous. Aries man, you might need to work on your pickup lines or putting on the "show".

At the same time, if you are too shy and chicken, it will remind her of herself and that might have a negative effect on how she feels. Quick judgment is not out of her reach so please, have manners. Don't use dirty jokes on the first dates, but instead, try this thing called having a conversation. Also, the Libra woman pays too much attention to what a mate wears. "He would probably be really cute if I wasn't staring at the grease on his T-shirt." Totally Libra womanish. Aries man I know you like to be active, but put on some nice, good looking clothes around her and pretend to care about this kind of thing. She is shallow. MOST importantly, chase, chase, chase. I said don't be too brash, vulgar or aggressive. Being obvious and chasing is good. It will flatter her to be constantly approached - and you excel at this, right? Use your direct, masculinity and knightliness to take her breath away!


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PART 2:


How to know he likes you - wowzers!


Dear Libra woman,

You know it when an Aries man likes you - not exactly sure why this is a question. Every sign in the zodiac knows. For one, wasn't it obvious when you both stood across the room from each other and you felt his eyes fixed to you? When an Aries man is attracted, he will stare and kinda forget everyone else in the room even exist; that's the first way to know. You will feel his eyes. You could be lined up at the movies and even if he is directly behind you, you will feel his eyes. Another way to tell is if he starts an argument or is just rough on the edges to you. Aries does not mean grace, refinement or class, debating with you, pushing you and running away (like a 9 year old) are asking your opinion means he wants you to engage with him. He might be physical. You might be playing sports and he walks in front of the team (you) and takes his shirt off and pretend he is just sweating - all the while bearing his muscles are something. If you walk on the sidewalk and the Aries suddenly grabs you by the arm and saves you from a speeding bus and you are left holding and looking at him - wow, he just did that! Aries will flirt and point out your shoes or book or favorite show. He will flirt and play a little bit of mind games - "oh of course it's you, who else am I only staring at?" [smiles and walks away] Kind of flirting.

What Libra, are you stupid or something, how is it hard to see? Also, Aries does it better, if they like you, they'll protect you - like, using weird excuses to hold your hand or put their arm around you. Honestly, he won't play games with you if he is serious.  "Do you want my number?" "Can I come to the cafe to see you again Friday?" "Do you have a boyfriend?" "I would be the perfect boyfriend for you." "You're such a cutie," "I'm going to start calling you when I'm off work everyday," "I genuinely like you as a person...." "I feel differently about you then I do anyone else." "I'mah wait for you to change your mind." "I'm marrying this one." Aries romantic style is obvious, brave and complete, thick in urgency.

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How to know she likes you - mmhmmm~


Dear Aries man,

Sorry to say, but you'll likely have a harder time with this one - but be patient, you sexy beast! Most signs can't tell if a Libra likes them or just is being nice. Libra is flirting with a potato in the kitchen or this rock she saw at the playground - it's just how she appears. You are used to getting your way with females though - you got game, and you know it. I don't usually see Libra woman chasing Aries men - it just doesn't happen in the wild.  She is sometimes giving mix messages - just like me as I write this for you - sorry.

If she likes you, she will let you get your way with her, Aries; call her up, again and the next day too, the Libra is independent and will put up a wall but if she is interested, she will indulge you. Good sign. If she goes to your place to chill or talk - she likes you for real for real. No doubt, you will be confused dealing with a Libra woman, she is all about balance and tends to push and pull a lot. She might be overly bold or even start a heated debate - to push you away. Don't be fooled! It's a mating process of elimination. She did that to the Cancer guy the other day and he couldn't handle. She did it to the Gemini guy too and he didn't engage. She tried Leo and it just didn't work out. 9 times out of 10, the Aries guy will pick the fight right back with her and it will frighten her. Don't be rude, just hang with her. "OMG A REAL MAN~" She'll quietly scream.

Don't amuse because a Libra confided in you that they like you, the Libra woman is just a very honest, open sign. She'll tell you the truth, always, you just have to ask her for it. A Libra will use their bodies as a weapon - more so than any other sign. She smells like dirt and freshly dried paint at home, you think she always smells like honey suckle and apples? She is trying to invite suiters. She'll bend down to grab a pin off the ground and all of a sudden - you're like "wtf", her derriere is in your view point. Then, when you aren't expecting it, you'll bump into her by "accident" and you had no idea she was there. She is like, "omg, I am so sorry!" all the while, seducing you the whole way. Then, she listens to everything you want to talk about - EVERYTHING. The poor Aries man has no way of knowing or resisting - sigh. Chances are, if you like-like a Libra already Aries guys, she likes you too - she is just hanging back. If you are a more quiet, shy Aries type and are confused still, ask her. She'll be either, " No, I'm not interested ," or she'll say, "I like you too....." Bang, you have her.



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PART 3:

Friendship and spending time together


Dear Libra woman, 

While you maybe somewhat allergic to his blunt and shameless approach, with an Aries man, you have a possible intellectual equal. An Aries man is perhaps the only sign that has the energy to put up with her plots and scheems. Seriously, the Libra woman gets knocked off balance easy and plays -  it's cruel. The Aries man is not easily scared off by her nasty games. For a Libra woman, this kind of thing is very important. Moreover, generally she doesn't want someone that's emotional to the point of being weak (Cancer and Pisces types) and she dislikes boring (possibly Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo men) - but not only that, she hates liars and sneaks (Leo and Scorpio men) too; if she doesn't want somone exactly like herself, the Libra woman's style is cerebral and aggressive. This makes an Aries man prime pickings, since he can surely serve it back at her. Not only is he genuinely interested in her need to discuss everything under the sun, he has something to say. He is a horrible liar, so he changes his mind instead of lying. Rather than behind your back, he starts mess to your face, likes to debate and argue. Action and butting heads is his past time. And you're not idealistic enough to judge him without good reason, right?

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Dear Aries man, 

Sure enough, she might not always rub you the right way, since she is fuzzy-minded and a bit confusing and rarely but it happens, rude, but she is mostly soft and kinda sweet, and that's something you like to see. She might not have the drive and energy to match you, but she is nice enough to listen to what you have to say, even when you are being unreasonable and overbearing. After a fit of rage, she just sits there, waiting her turn to reply, and being able to vent makes you feel better in the end - after all the spot-light, you feel happy and less defensive over yourself. She is kind of your type, she is willing to talk and debate with you, but she isn't moody like other women - this makes you happy too; being able to blend with your lovely Libra lady and knowing she won't hold grudges, sulk, pout or go silent on you, makes you even happier to have found her. Besides, after a fight, when she lays that charm and sweetness on, it's hard to stay mad at her, no?




PART 4:

When it doesn't work


Dear Libra woman,

Not all Aries are the same and you will find certain ones that you might still be attracted to but should stay far away from. So Libra, you have to find out of he is intellectual enough for your taste. Cultural difference and intellectual level determines this relationship 100%. Can you think of something worst then a Aries that lies and plays games? I legit cannot. If you're posh and he is ghetto, politely decline. I am dead serious - even if he begs, claiming you are the one for him, don't do it. You will argue for no reason, about the dumbest things, he'll think going to the club is fine, while you want a stable home, etc,. -- and the aggressive, selfish Aries will never give in, while the Libra will seek to put things the way they want it. An unreasonable Aries man is one of the most intolerable things in the zodiac. If he is stomping around the house meanly all day and seeing other women, ultimatums should be offered, at which if the behavior continues, let him rot - remember, Libra and Aries are karmically linked. Now when you agree on the same things in life and have decent communication, that's wonderful, soul-mate stuff.


Dear Aries man, 

You won't like all Libra women, some are too stern and mean for your taste, while others are too shallow and plastic for you. Be on a look out for a lot of earth signs in her chart. If you met one that thinks and acts like she is better than you, just go chase someone else. You don't like to be controlled and overshadowed by anyone - if you notice that's her type, you might wanna miss out on that one--just saying. Some are obviously not on the same intellectual levels, lying and roaming about, trying to better herself--leave that one. You ever heard of the unbalanced scales? If you notice this, politely tell them why and leave quietly. If you're a CEO and you found a lovely Libra lady on the street, please leave her on the streets, unless you have an actual connection - and even then, Aries, you are too naive to know if she is using you are not - if you disagree a lot, it should be a sign. Leave her and find one that likes to have deep talks and hold her accountable for her bs; Libra women tend to know quickly whether or not this relationship will work, but ALL too often, I see committed, decent Aries guys holding on to ratchet Libra women, as if she is the best you can get your hand on - let her leave - karma's got you, bb.


Part 5: 

Conclusion.....

Dear Aries man and Libra woman,

All in all, this match is grand. Her womanliness and charm, coupled with some indecisions goes so well with his direct, masculine approach that it's impossible to deny; indeed, it will leave everyone around puzzled and enchanted (including one another) seeing how naturally they hit it off. On a similar intellectual level or a similar cultural view, this is a match made in sweet heaven. He is kinda outwardly selfish and tends to look after himself. Libra would much rather not be unpleasant and grumpy, if only the more selfish Ram plays fair with them. If the Aries tries to understand the Venus nature, being just a little more sympathetic, the Libra will react kindly, showering him with attention and affection instead - and both their moods are lifted - problem solved. Her calm gentleness will boost his self-confidence, while she'll be forever entertained by his reactive, manly mannerism.



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